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Retirement indeed has its benefits

Freedom! Now, what shall I do today? There are so many possibilities I scarcely know where to begin. I have been retired from teaching for 17 years now.
Freedom! Now, what shall I do today? There are so many possibilities I scarcely know where to begin.

I have been retired from teaching for 17 years now. My lifestyle has totally changed, but in a most beneficial way — I don’t feel rushed and I like that very much.

Having that second cup of coffee in the morning with my husband while reading several newspapers is pure luxury. Sleeping in now means 8:30 — not 6:30 — and I can decide to get up or not. Afternoon naps are delicious, especially on stormy days.

I enjoy having a leisurely lunch with my retired friends and chatting together for as long as we want. I can go straight to dessert if I choose. We might even imbibe a glass of wine if we aren’t driving. Who cares?

Retirement gave me the opportunity to assist my parents in their final years. That was very important to me.

It also gives me more time to enjoy my five grandchildren and my great-grandson, too. It is so much fun to share in their lives.

We enjoy travelling more, both in Canada and in the Netherlands. Reconnecting periodically with my overseas family is essential for me. It gives me the opportunity to speak in my mother tongue and maintain it.

I retired in June 1996. In 2002, I began to write my memoirs as a legacy for my daughters, grandchildren and younger siblings. My nieces and nephews are also learning about the de Burger family history, which is important.

I have also become active in two remarkable groups, the Retired Women Teachers of Ontario (RWTO-OERO) and the Catholic Women’s League (CWL) — now that I have the time and energy to do so now. Singing in the choir is uplifting.

Receiving that pension cheque every month is welcome, as is my Old Age Security (OAS) cheque. They give me the freedom to plan interesting activities — whatever I want.

Reading is essential to my well-being. It has always been and continues to be an unending source of pleasure. As someone once said, “So many books, so little time!”

Gardening gives me great pleasure, too. In the fall, I plant my crocus, tulip and daffodil bulbs, knowing their flowers will delight me in spring.

I can make my appointments conveniently during the day. Shopping for groceries and clothing has never been easier, nor has banking — I can go when it’s not busy.
If I become ill, I have all the time I need to rest and follow doctor’s orders without the pressure of worrying about my class.

The joys and benefits of retirement are endless.

Always bring a book.

Erna de Burger-Fex is a writer and retired teacher.

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